He Wants My Attention But Not Me

Help! New Reply This topic contains 6 replies, has 5 voices, and was last updated by Ryan Viola 5 years, 5 months ago. He won't cuddle with me or even look at me when I walk around naked. While their dad and I love them deeply and want the best for them, their heavenly Father loves them deeper and fuller and is always there…even when they’re not paying attention or giving Him the acknowledgement I pray they will come to know and live in all the days of their lives. He says it's because he doesn't want to cause me any more physical pain. me and my step dad. He's physically attracted to me and even desires me sexually. I have tried to take him to counselors twice. What is Relationship Closure? Healing Without a Goodbye. I know many of you are thinking how this is just horrible. What Does he Want From you? Sometimes when I tell him I want to wait to have sex he gets a little hurtful. Whats it mean if he wants to cum in me Question Posted Wednesday January 7 2009, 12:59 pm This questions for the girls and guys, mainly guys though. Does my boss like/want/care for me? Too many mixed signals!!! Question Posted Thursday June 18 2009, 2:47 am One of my bosses at work keeps giving me mixed signals. Today I get to choose to meet myself in the middle of who I was and who I am becoming. I was sure that he is not very emotional and doesn’t care how I look because he is tall and I have small height. When he noticed I had problems with my boyfriend , he started telling me that my bf wasn't a good person , and that he was stupid of letting me go. Why do some people crave attention? In fact we all need attention to a certain extent because we are social beings but why do some people seem to be doing everything in order to get more attention? For example if a man has a little amount of money then spent all what he has got to buy a sports car. He tells me his ideas and asks me about mine. i can't wait to get my counselling. He's very scared to go into a committed relationship with me but gives me assurances that he will be with me my entire life. The words probed my heart and bore a truth that could not be ignored. My purpose this morning is simple: I want to think about this matter of what God wants from us. He wants to be w me but I don't understand what is so hard to compliment me every once & a while & kiss me. Maybe he doesn’t want to ruin the friendship. While on the other hand, my friend who had a girlfriend did not give much attention to new women he met, and it seemed that some women actually became attracted to him. But then she started to give off this "not interested" vibe. He likes me enough to not want to disappoint me (i told him I felt worried I disappoint him but he said no), and I think he cares about me more than he has let on, and doesn't want things to go sour between us as much as I do. Of course, you see them, but their flaws or actions are masked by your puppy dog love eyes. An ex's disrespect. he is my friend's brother, and when we met he was really nice, we chatted a bit, i also caught him looking at me few times. No one wants to be kept around just because it feeds the ego. " "He lives his life as if we weren't married; he rarely considers me. we had on and off relationship afterwards. He doesn't think twice to say 'I love you' to you. But everytime I bring up a guy, he cuts me off, or he just gets stupidly angry. Because he wants to keep those benefits you provide that don’t require him to make any real effort in providing you what you need. I love him and I think he loves me too. M quite sure about it. He’s kept his affair, and my existence, a secret from them. Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo are here to say that—despite good intentions—you’re wasting your time. But he’s not up to the task. My only problem, is that his fur is coming off at the back, now I don't know what's wrong if that's supposed to happen. He just whines when he needs to call for me or comes and gets my hand and looks at what he wants or take me there. “Time for cataract surgery. My dog, does not want any of the cats coming around our bed, and if they should walk by in the middle of the night, he goes into a rage. Speaking to my daughter she told me my wife was missing me and making comments on the phone about me, this is where it gets confusing my wife knows that im not back home and hasnt mentioned divorce or asked me to collect my belongings, im living with my daughter and had some of my christmas presents off my wife but my daughter said nicola wants. The scores for whom justice still hasn’t come, in a city with an epidemic of gun violence that claims someone nearly every day. My boyfriends kids are 11 and 8 and it’s not as bad yet but it has potential…his daughter does not want me around the house and gives him hell when you lets her know that I will be visiting. How do i rationalize to myself and realize that it is not that he doesn't want to spend time with me, its just that he has to work? Are my past relationships and heartbreaks interfering with the fact that i have a chance to have a normal, healthy relationship? please help me!!. He replayed the games throwing me for a loop as he was that good I could not tell it was him. That being said when sex began to be painful because of pregnancy he did not care. I honestly woder if i hAve no spoised him wit attention?!. He will stand his ground and bark/show his teeth. He also wants to get into our old bedroom, as we had to move our bed and stuff to the living room for safety reasons. We all have doubts about whether someone finds us attractive. His girlfriend is bitchy and complains that he does not spend enough time with her. I mean he shows the signs that he just wants me as a Moderator cut: snip buddy, but I could be wrong. My man is protective, but he does not get overly jealous. I was trying to move on but , my friends says that he is staring at me a lot and I too catch him staring at me. I’m no stranger to being in places I don’t want to be. He never finished high school and he always threw my degree in my face. Every time you talk on the phone, you have to end the call. The me here refers to herself/choir leader and not me. Why is there a sudden change in our cat's behavior toward me?. Got past it. If you're the one always texting him first and if he only texts you at night, then stop giving him your full attention. But after that he just vanished. One of the most severe symptoms of borderline personality disorder (BPD) is recurring self-harm and suicidal behavior/attempts. We broke up about a month ago and I have gone no contact for 2 weeks. She is only thinking about herself and what she wants for her son not what he wants for himself. “I want to see my students evaluate their own playing,” she says. Anytime I touch my Lab’s bowl or touch the dog food my Shiba starts barking loudly and bares his teeth and scrunches his snout. We are broken up at the moment and he's been acting out and getting into fights and drinking way to much. He will want to know more about you and he’ll really listen when you express what you like, don’t like and want. How to use remember in a sentence. One reason for animals to play dead is because they want to avoid unwanted attention. Questions such as. If your crush is only keen on getting attention from you and does not have any genuine interest, he will try to get your attention when you start to lose interest in him. If he does not stop doing this, tell him forcefully not to. My son does not talk,he babbles and he will be entering school coming up,and I want to make sure he is receiving all the attention he needs so I can finally hear my sons voice. I really want to stress that this is not aggressive behavior, which is why I am s confused as to how to handle this. It is a possessive desire for shared oneness. Like currently I like a guy who is dating someone else and bc he gives me attention ( even tho he ignores me at times and treats me like a slut) I just focus on when he does treat me well and ignore the bad. Why? Because next weekend, you’ll be reading this article again after Googling why doesn’t he love me? Sometimes a few ignored phone calls can tell you EVERYTHING you need to know about your potential mate. he gonna tell me after i get this abortion he don’t want. Eversince, My marriage is truly a disaster. Why Do Women Wear Sexy Clothes If They Don’t Want Attention? They do want attention, but if you need to ask, then they don’t want it from you. Gretel, on the other hand, does it because she is fearful of other dogs. My now ex roommate reminded me of my ex husband and his mother combined. Kit Harington, who gave us eight seasons of Jon Snow, has just sat for a new interview in which he stresses that he’s not only satisfied with how his character arc ended. Why cant my husband forgive me? after he found out that i was in love with another man who is more than 20 years older than me (I'm 30 now). One man told me that when his wife wasn’t available, he snuck out to massage parlors in a “primal state. The first year was in college — he has left now while I continue my last year. (Evan Vucci/AP) By Paul Waldman he does not have a single meaningful legislative accomplishment to his name. He also got me safely back on the expressway. I have been sleeping in classes. He liked to beat me with a wooden spoon. However, asking a question in a reply is a dubious practice in itself, because it will only be seen by those who are watching this thread. He is being honest if he says “I want you in my life”. Even though my heart will sink and I'll probably never want to see him again. Have you ever said or heard something like this? I know I have. What he means: He still wants to keep you around but now that he made it clear that he is not interested in dating you seriously, he feels that he can get away with flirting with you more openly without any strings attached because he was honest about his intentions. Yet because he insists that he wants to be with you when you’re ready to leave you actually start to buy into the “he won’t let me go, so he must love me” perception. Katherine Swidan keeps losing weight. Synonym Discussion of remember. He had told me from the beginning he did not want a relationship (he’s the free bird bohemian type). question - some guys if you ignore them , but your body language says different,they are fired up to pester you to get your attention until you cave in. i really wish that he would help me he just left he doesnt even care anymore. I get worried. Whenever I asked him a question just to make everything's clear, instead of answering my question he always telling me "why? You dont trust me?" i am freaked out by this. Valentine Holmes hopes to make an impression Saturday when the Jets play their third preseason game, facing the Saints at MetLife Stadium. So, flirt, but in a way where you give your attention to others. Background: me and my dad will get into huge, screaming fights, but he has never been physically violent. Why does he want my attention, what does he want from me?. However, my dog has always been a picky eater. So I decided that I wanted us back. He shows so much love and attention for me, but not my 2 kids. but it’s not clear to me if he meant when he got his check you’d get yours. My dog, does not want any of the cats coming around our bed, and if they should walk by in the middle of the night, he goes into a rage. This happens to the best of us. I saw the look of excitement and a rush of adrenaline in his eyes when he beat me. He is dumb, ugly, fat. Every time I've done this, somewhere inside me I've thought, "It's bad to be desperate for attention. He won't cuddle with me or even look at me when I walk around naked. Take a look and see whether or not you think this man is totally into you. Does He Want To Marry Me? 5 Things That Show He Does. Only problem - I want to have sex more than he does. I honestly woder if i hAve no spoised him wit attention?!. Play video games with them, ask them what’s so cool about this maybe that could be ur new thing that u guys do and u can also do other stuff. So here we go, I’m back to asking—is it appropriate for him to be gawking at other women, especially with me? He tries to play it off even though I call him out on the carpet for it. ~Gary Saul Morson, The Words of Others: From Quotations to Culture, 2011 You complain, Velox, that the epigrams which I write are long. Background: me and my dad will get into huge, screaming fights, but he has never been physically violent. I was his first girlfriend/ first love. My first tip for wives whose husbands want to get divorced - but won't leave the house - is to learn as much as you can about the legalities of separation. If the guy is not doing the same for you, then do not do it for him. At least for the past 10ish years or so I know why I’m around, judge me as you want, but its my cat. He will not let him around me at all without growling. Got this guy who is my friend and cares about me a lot wouldn't want nothing to happen to me, he's not much of a phone person, but anyways he's out of town and his brother was saying how much he missed me and wants to come over and say hi. I want your attention the same way a person drowning wants the attention of a lifeguard, but I can’t scream for help and raise my hand because instead of drowning in water I am drowning in my own heightened emotions. When you’re about to shift your attention to other direction, there he is again – stealing a glance at you. p Thanks Again! Reply. Talking can seem far more useful and attractive than listening, and so people will seek to talk rather than listen. From today I am not sure if I have a stalker or if that man is obsessed with me and I can't take it no more I need to speak out. I love him and he says that he loves me and yet he cannot sleep with me. The kitten is a year old now. Like an uncontrollable beast, he grabbed me and ripped off my underwear, forced open my leg and attempted to penetrate me. He beat my mother. There are always signs given off by everyone, signals that are subconsciously used and can be picked up by others. Many people will smile unconsciously and aren’t really aware of it because they like someone. he won't do Skype unless he has time after his soccer game. Why Do Women Wear Sexy Clothes If They Don’t Want Attention? They do want attention, but if you need to ask, then they don’t want it from you. my friend told me he said i am a very nice girl, not like the others. You already look amazing, but if you want to get his attention when he starts to pull away from you, you really need to kick things up a notch. I've catch him staring at me so many times, even touching my arms 'accidentally'. Mentally abuses me but spoils my son way to much. He's Not Scared To Express Love. Because we live in a profoundly unhealthy society that teaches us: * That prior to the interaction, females have 'higher value' and men should bring them to their own level by ignoring and negging * That displaying affection is 'lame' and 'boring'. Once you stop giving the guy your full attention, if he doesn't care that you stopped, then he never cared about you in the first place. As you’re talking, keep asking yourself, “Does this detail risk boring my listener, risk your being thought of as the King or Queen of Hot Air? 2. I was allowed back in after ACL surgery on my shoulder to no husband at home , I know three times he showed up at his fathers to break things on his. I told my son I would not be able to see him until he stops doing what his Dad requests. If you don't scold him then he'll admit that he's serious with you. My wife wants to continue her affair while we carry on as if nothing is happening Tell Me About It: I am hurt but I know the whole family would suffer greatly from a separation. Why That Matters NPR's Michel Martin speaks with economist and Federal Reserve historian Gary Richardson about the latest interest rate cuts. He wolfed his food down. He’s always been a manly man. I want the kind of guy that can touch me in a certain way and I feel tingles all over my body. He also cries when he wants someone to pet him and he scratches things with his paws. Hi Jennifer, my situation is much like yours. tell him not to. He also shoves his head between your legs when he has a head halter on that he really really wants off. The sex was great. However he does subject them to how he talks to & treats me. Be persistent – Think alpha male who knows what he wants, not a pathetic needy loser who’s begging for attention. Maricopa Student Refund Program (MSRP) Payment Options and Tuition Due Dates Payment Plan Refunds Student Business Services. Btw, ladies. But yet he'll sometimes bring up girls that he had sex with. Our son is nearly 4 and demands a lot of my attention. He is distant with me, he treats other girls in a close and trusted way. this is very helpful information, im actually in the process of having my 3yr old son checked for autism. It has been a month now and I am missing him like crazy, what kills me more is not knowing how he is and what’s happening with him. He Seeks Your Attention. This was his idea. I find myself in a similar situation and the only way forward for me is to remove myself from football and this cycle I’ve been in. I think he has only cheated on me once. She called irate. Slow down, ‘I always knew the right one would come along’. He rabbit scratches and bites and the rest of the time he is. I think he has only cheated on me once. Sometimes he dont open my msg n sometimes he just see n let it go. But what I wasn't prepared for was for my father to start exhibiting similar attributes. ” ― Henry David Thoreau. When your husband wants. It used to be fun when I practically had to pin him down, now it's just depressing. The reason He cried, My God, My God, why hast Thou forsaken me? is because He was forsaken. This is lost the moment he see’s another dog. One reason for animals to play dead is because they want to avoid unwanted attention. Males have mastered the evasive maneuvers for inquisitive questions as they watch and learn things about you, you probably didn't know about yourself. I have a 17 yr old who hates me does not respect me help me or respect my home he is the youngest of 6, 3 now left home and married ,but i have bought him up since he was 4 months old on my own as his dad left and does not bother with him ,im disabled and my other children are ok iv got to the point where i want to end my life as the constant. His girlfriend is bitchy and complains that he does not spend enough time with her. I know this still we are on with each other. He also lied and said he had a new girlfriend. One of my favorite things about my husband is that he's always letting me a man that wants to marry you will really close attention to. You are probably hoping for some sign that will signal, "honey I want you back" or "will you take me back". "He hasn't said he doesn't love me, but I can see the signs he doesn't love me the way I need to be loved. I have tried the steps you suggest. My husband constantly cheats. It's really incredible…These past few weeks have just been inundated with calls regarding the same issue so I figured I may as well just discuss this in the open. i am here to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for more than 9 years and have gotten two kids. I'm a 21yo female and guys have told me I'm good looking w/ a great body. Men are very competitive and sometimes all they need is a bit of jealousy to make them get up and go after you. me and my step dad. I am 51 and I have been seeing a 34 years old guy for a year now. Maybe she might be ok with me not wanting it and won’t ask me again, but I will always feel like I won’t measure up because I am not giving her what she wants. " But then he whines and cries. So, I already know he has a special build about him and now it’s just about what work he wants to put in to become whatever player he wants to become. What your husband isn't telling you. What is Relationship Closure? Healing Without a Goodbye. No run on my bank can drain it, for my wealth is not possession but enjoyment. I feel like he will think my vagina is ugly. He likes me a lot but doesn't accept it publicly when someone asks him about me. Fleming (1908-1964). In situations of this kind the best thing you could do is to play along. and i find myself constantly checking my cell at work to see if he tried to text or call and then when there's no message on there i get so sad i always try to let him come to me firstbut usually if i don't hear from him for awhile then i'll initiate it. Cats seem to know what they want and they have learned ways to make sure we get the message. He thinks you’re cute, so he wants to see if you have cute. I just could not inflict upon him the life he would have if I was gone – who would take him and treat him as I have, who would even know how much he has done for me, just by being there to amuse and cheer me up when needed. Whenever he buys something or does something he wants me to say that he's so awesome and I usually find myself feeding his ego just so maybe I could get anything in return but I don't. Now he has call me several time, wants to see me , send me text with pictures of us , and new pictures of him in his spectacular fit body! He said I'm a special person , that he cares about me and has not forgotten his promise to help me pay my house! He called me again this weekend to come to my house, I said was working. I don't like when my boyfriend hangs out with his friends? Alrighty, I'm not trying to sound awful here, but whenever he tells me he's going to hang out with them, I get really, really sad. And I know he loves me. So, he may not even get to know that i have started liking him. Not my fiance, not my boyfriend, but my husband! i still love him even though he thinks i want to leave i really want him to do better and stop me before i walk out! my husband told me that he doesn’t feel loved anymore, just because of this co-worker he has be cheating on with me that he wants a divorce, i was devastated, heart broken i. 10 Things Service Dog Handlers Want You to Know by Kea Grace Many people have a vague sense of awareness that Service Dogs “help” their person and that they’re allowed to be in public, but there’s a lot more to Service Dog handlers and teams than meets the eye. If you're the one always texting him first and if he only texts you at night, then stop giving him your full attention. I'm not sure if he was really staring at me or maybe he was staring at my best friend who sits next to me Maybe he's just in deep thought and he's staring at me by a chance 11. When me and my husband first starting dating, we used to make love all the time. This one requires close attention to notice but if the boy in front of you is all smiles, I’m talking the bright ones from ear to ear, then he certainly might really like you. These are the only ones that make sense: "If a man is not interested in you ENOUGH, he will not pursue. He will start feeling miserable and grumpy with a fever or congestion and loose his appetite. Or, he is stringing you along for the attention. Don't Give Her Too Much Attention. I know he does not want me to smoke because he’s scared I’m going to die. He told me he can do anything he wants to do and kick me out of the house …. He said he'd like to be friends and go out and do stuff and have sex. You Want Attention From Your Husband: He Wants The Waitress You Want Attention From Your Husband: He Wants The Waitress I just want some compliments from him. Anyway, I'm not sure if he's been trying to get my attention but he's been staring at me(I think), walks in front of me, sits next to me and nudges me even though we don't talk much. " To a woman, this just feels like, "Meh, he's a nice guy, but I'm not really all that excited about him. He tried thinking she would let him go. Then comes another reminder (sometimes in a deafening or dreadful way) of what God wants of us. He has not made the object, but he has made it as art. Whenever I asked him a question just to make everything's clear, instead of answering my question he always telling me "why? You dont trust me?" i am freaked out by this. Have you ever said or heard something like this? I know I have. from last week I am talking with a person daily for hours because I needed someone and the person I talk with is a person I like. Cats seem to know what they want and they have learned ways to make sure we get the message. If a man is trying to flirt with you, he would try and works like a leader of the group to steal your attention. He never wants to talk about it. Understanding a guy's body language is the first step to determining if he likes you but is trying not to show it. So he responds by ignoring her. President Donald Trump had privately discussed with his advisers the idea of buying the world's. Depressed sure have made me act like an ass, but it never split my face in two. His barking is usually to shout “hello. I would receive the comment “It will only take a few minutes, and I’ll be quick. My 2 and 1/2 year old son, often does not respond or heed me when we are playing together. He wanted to be sure everyone saw him, gave him attention, and that all of the attention went to him and not our other two children. I was too busy to feel, too busy to talk, too busy to cry, and He knew it. My purpose this morning is simple: I want to think about this matter of what God wants from us. somewhat, but not enough for anyone but me to. Greenland on Friday dismissed the notion that it might be up for sale after reports that U. A year ago, I had to make the hardest decision of my life: Choose between my dream job and my baby girl. QUESTION: My husband and I are currently going through an informal separation. He calls me this weekend (after not hearing from him in 2weeks) and he tells me that he is going to spend the holidays with her in Malaysia(of course…paid for by his parents!!!!). Listen to how he tries to get his attention: “Rabbi, you are not a soldier in my command, you are the rabbi and I am the student. this is very helpful information, im actually in the process of having my 3yr old son checked for autism. Many people will smile unconsciously and aren’t really aware of it because they like someone. He’ll go out of his way to make sure you feel loved. An Adam Lanza. My 5 year old son is impulsively hitting kids at school, he understands that it is wrong and is sorry after - Answered by a verified Mental Health Professional. I have communicated with him several times that he is not meeting my needs. He will start feeling miserable and grumpy with a fever or congestion and loose his appetite. It has gotten so bad that he will sit between my boyfriend and I when we are on the couch. The way he tries to get attention, he makes it so obvious that he wants me to notice. I realize that's easier said than done especially since you voiced that you have a fantastic time together. He does not let me leave house unless it’s with him or my mother. Thanks for the article. He calls me insecure or he accuses me of not being. My purpose this morning is simple: I want to think about this matter of what God wants from us. make a move and see what it leads to. And sometimes it’s hard to tell, but here are the signs he wants you bad. They Want Attention. No matter what, my ex will never use my son to hurt me or get me to attend any more events where my ex will humiliate me. him do whatever/whomever he wants”. He was once told me that he want to get marry with me. And she doesn’t pay attention to my younger brother he told me that his step father told him to tell me that he does not want to see me any more and if he dont he will kick him out on the. My Guy Says He Wants to Marry Me—But He's NOT Saving Up for a Ring!" This girl's boyfriend seems to be more interested in mopeds than marriage. You try to stare at him too, daring him to meet your eyes, but he’s cautious not to have a glimpse of you this time around, so he acts like he’s busy with something. Questions such as. I did not pay attention to the red flags and was trying to be nice as I thought a good Christian woman should and she needed a place to live, drama, debt and ex all in one. He's only affectionate when we are having sex. Once he tried to touch me but I was shocked so I removed my hand. Why does my boyfriend want to go on holiday without me? By the time I got home, he was very keen! I’m not sure my young self acted in the most mature manner or with the best of intentions. But not everyone is rooting for the National Rugby League. Got past it. He calls me insecure or he accuses me of not being. I told him I don’t even want him in my life anymore, I don’t even want to know if he cares or not. It has caused my self-confidence to take a beating because I wasn’t truly living in my own skin. He was of multiple women just to have fun so after being with me he was hitting on me but I didn't pay heed as I wanted someone to be with me and not others. While on the other hand, my friend who had a girlfriend did not give much attention to new women he met, and it seemed that some women actually became attracted to him. He laughs at me cause he's so happy when I am so upset or angry. News, email and search are just the beginning. It’s odd to me because he’s not aggressive toward me or my Lab at this point, it’s like he’s barking to bark. This time was the worst he has very bit me. He or she. 22 signs he definitely does not want to be your boyfriend. For the past year or so we live in separate rooms. The me here refers to herself/choir leader and not me. Organizers of Modesto’s straight pride parade may not have permits for a grand celebration but they’re still planning to make a stand — and several San Franciscans will be there for the counter-protest come Saturday. Why it's so hard? Seriously, this is confusing. I and my boyfriend have been dating for three months. My purpose this morning is simple: I want to think about this matter of what God wants from us. Look, My Straight Boyfriend Can Suck Cock If He Wants but I Won't Be His Dick Detective Savage Love Letter of the Day. What the heck he wants from me? Can't he see that I am not giving in to him? - The latest one, was to send a message to me trough my son to ask if he could park one of his car in my garage for my son when he turns 21. What should I do when my boyfriend ignores me? You do not need him to pay attention to you for you to have value, and sometimes, I think we get so caught up in. me and my step dad. Please do not wait for him to break up with you…. Dustin wrote: I think the 2 main reasons why guys cheat goes like this: 1) Guys get stuck with a clingy girl. I focused my attention on caring for our children, even though I felt as if I were dying inside, questioning my self-worth, my intelligence as well as my existence. But I just don't know. He is so involved in play that he ignores me. he was given to me as a puppy. There is this guy that seems quite a picky person when it comes to women and there is plenty that he knows but he seems to want my attention. As I mentioned at the beginning, this is not the first time this has happened to me. my friend told me he said i am a very nice girl, not like the others. I was not prepared, I was exhausted and had the worst looks ever. I have been sleeping in classes. He was on my laptop and he was on his Facebook and he was laughing at what my mom said on FB. Steal the attention. To enjoy the waterwheel coming towards me. I'm not sure if he was really staring at me or maybe he was staring at my best friend who sits next to me Maybe he's just in deep thought and he's staring at me by a chance 11. Learn To Read The Signs The Right Way – Not Everything Is As It Seems Whenever the break up happens people are often curious to know if their exes are still interested in them or if they have moved on. Will he out grow this?. Romans 12:2. Because we live in a profoundly unhealthy society that teaches us: * That prior to the interaction, females have ‘higher value’ and men should bring them to their own level by ignoring and negging * That displaying affection is ‘lame’ and ‘boring’. My names is Cathy i want to testify about the great spell caster called Priest Ade my husband and i have been married for 5 years now we don't have a child and the doctor told us i can't give birth because my womb have been damaged due to wrong drugs prescription this got me so worried and my husband was not happy so he decided to get married. He is dumb, ugly, fat. Have you ever said or heard something like this? I know I have. Then comes another reminder (sometimes in a deafening or dreadful way) of what God wants of us. Yes, he is passive aggressive, distractible, and lazy – but there is nothing in it for him.